Hi Naminama
first i recommend to just ignore the post above since it doesn't give you any answers
just a lot of BS so as i wrote just ignore all haters and feel free to ask anything
you asked a great question and i'll make it short:
the simple answer is in two words-selfish behavior
it could have been different i know but some people choose the hard way and sadly it affects most of the community
because the waiting is a big waste of time
good day